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Saturday, 12 May 2018

Is Unagi really a thing?

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In America's one of the most popular sitcom, 'FRIENDS', you might have come across the term- Unagi, in season 6 episode 17, 'the one with Unagi'.

In the episode, Ross Geller, one of the six main characters in the show brags about how he learnt Karate and has achieved the state of complete awareness- Unagi.
While all the other FRIENDS characters disagreed with him, this left me wondering what if Ross was actually right? If you had the same question at the end of the episode then you will be happy to know that I did some digging for all the curious minds like us.

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In the episode

Ross can be seen telling his friends Rachel and Phoebe when they were back from a self-defense class about Unagi.
"I studied Karate for a very long time and there's a concept you should be really familiar with. It is what the Japanese call Unagi. Unagi is a state of total awareness."
"Only by true Unagi can you be prepared for any danger that may befall you."

Throughout the episode, Ross tries to show up in front of them out of the blue to surprise them and teach them the importance of Unagi.
However, in the end, Phoebe and Rachel take a revenge on him by hiding in his apartment and beating the shit out of him to make him realize that he isn't prepared either.

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Was Ross right about Unagi?

Well, to all the FRIENDS fan, I am sorry but Unagi has nothing to do with Karate. Of course, Ross was wrong.  
Unagi is the Japanese word for freshwater eel, especially the Japanese eel, Anguilla Japonica. It is used as a common ingredient in Japanese cooking.

Unagi is basically sliced pieces of eel fish, grilled and brushed with a soy sauce reduction which gives it a sweet taste. Unagi is often served with rice and it is an expensive Japanese delicacy.
It is a special food that Japanese eat occasionally, there is even a day for Unagi that comes once in a year and falls only on a Saturday.

That day is called "the day of the ox in midsummer", and the Japanese have a custom of preparing and eating Unagi on that day.

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What's with the Karate then?

In Japanese Martial Arts, Zanshin is the state of total awareness. It means being aware of one's surroundings and enemies while being prepared to react.
The literal translation of the term Zashin(Japanese) into English is 'a remaining mind'.
It is a state of mental alertness and physical readiness to meet the situation such as to defend an attack or counter attack.

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So yeah, now we know what Unagi is, but I still don't know whether eels can practice Unagi- the state of complete awareness. 😉
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Sunday, 17 September 2017

Facts about Farhan Akhtar you did not know

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Farhan Akhtar, the multi-talented actor-director-singer-lyricist is quite unconventional whether it be his husky voice or his movie choices. With all that talent in a single body, he can be called a production house in himself. Although his portfolio was not so gorgeous like the other actors of the B-town he still managed to create a firm position in the film industry and straight away in our hearts, thanks to his phenomenal skills.

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The 43-year-old Farhan was born in Mumbai to scriptwriters Javed Akhtar and Honey Irani. He has won many Filmfare Awards and received praises for his pragmatic roles in movies like Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara, Bhaag Milkha Bhaag and Wazir etc, but before Bollywood bestowed him with the limelight, he had to undergo a lot of struggle like every twenty-something guy. Gladly, we have done all the digging for you. So, sit tight and enjoy!


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His father belongs to Lucknow and so he has spent some crucial years of his life in his ancestral house in Lucknow. Farhan admires the old Lakhnawi architecture and not to mention, not-to-be-found anywhere else Tunday kebabs.


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Farhan stated in an interview that Mathematics was a nightmare for him. While in the second year, Farhan was kicked out of HR college, Mumbai for short attendance. He was pursuing law there. He didn't even try to complete his graduation later.


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Post college, he spent 2 years of his life literally doing nothing. Wondering what did he do? He just watched movies day-in and day-out on VHS. According to him, it was his self-conducted film course. Probably, he wasn't just watching movies, he was studying them.


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His mother was worried about his career. She threatened him to throw him out of the house if he didn't get serious about his life. Guess what he did next? He penned down the blockbuster youth movie 'Dil Chahta Hai'. He considers it to be the turning point in his life.


Farhan Akhtar

He made his directorial debut in Bollywood with 'Dil Chahta Hai' in 2001. But he didn't leave Hollywood untouched. He wrote the lyrics for Gurinder Chadha's 'Bride and Prejudice(2004)'. Prior to this, he was assistant director in movies Lamhe(1991) and Himalay Putra(1997).


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Yes! He has a borderline obsessive-compulsive disorder. He gets anxious when stuff around him is unorganized. He feels distracted when the things are not kept in their right places. He also has a phobia for cockroaches.


Farhan with wife Adhuna and daughters Shakya and Akira

Farhan's better half Adhuna Bhabani is seven years older to him and brought up in the UK. They dated for three years before tying the knot in 2000. They are blessed with two lovely daughters- Shakya and Akira. Presently, Adhuna is a successful Bollywood hairstylist. But sadly the couple got divorced in October 2016.


Farhan Akhtar

One of the biggest regrets that he will always have is saying 'No' to a wonderful movie. The role of the lead protagonist in 'Rang De Basanti' was initially offered to him, but he refused to do it. The role was later offered to Aamir Khan only after he declined it.

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As compared to other celebrities, Farhan learnt driving a little late when he was 22. While he learnt to ride a bike during the shooting of the movie 'Karthik calling Karthik'. His first car was Fiat which was gifted to him by his father.


Farhan Akhtar

He is UN Women's Goodwill Ambassador. He also attended a United Nation's Conference in New York where he interacted with some of the famous Hollywood actors like Meryl Streep, Chris Marti, Anne Hathway and Dakota Fanning. He also launched the social campaign MARD(Men Against Rape and Discrimination).

Farhan Akhtar is definitely the 'Man of the Millenium'. He is the perfect youth icon to look up to. One thing that can be learned from Farhan Akhtar is 'One can be brilliant on his own term'. I am his die-hard fan and in love with his naturally funny character in Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara.

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Wednesday, 13 September 2017

What is blogging and why you should do it?

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Blogging is a good practice and quite a trend now. Even if you look at your own friend circle you will definitely find someone who says "I am a blogger".
One day I went to a restaurant with my school friend, we were meeting after a long time. We skimmed through the menu and quickly ordered some starters and began our never-ending gossip session. While I was talking to her I overheard some guy sitting just behind our couch, asking his girl friend "If someone says 'I am a blogger', what does it mean?". To which she replied, "It means he is a blogger".

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It was definitely a lame answer and I wanted to turn back to them and explain him about blogging. But I chose not to. Since you are not from Mars, I take it that you already know what blogging is, right? But to all those, who haven't heard it before and wondering what this alien term is, I have come to your rescue. There was a time, decades back when blogging meant a person keeping a log of his everyday activity, kind of an online journal, but now blogging is not restricted only to that, today blogging is a career. A Blogger creates online content about a particular niche say 'food', and interested people can follow his blog for fresh articles on that topic. Readers can engage and participate in the discussion. Just like the one you are reading, yes Blogmantra is a blog and I am a blogger.



I can give you more than a hundred reasons why you should start a blog, but we don't have the time for that haul. So I will just give you some of the most significant reasons that will inspire you to start blogging.

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Best for introverts

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If you are an introvert, you should try blogging. Most of the time introverts are good with words, moreover, I can give you examples when blogging has really helped people to come out of their shells. India's one of the best pro-blogger Harsh Aggarwal was an introvert when he started his blog, it was difficult for him to make conversation in person. But see him today, he travels all across the world, meets new people and takes international seminars, possible only because of his award winning blog Shoutmeloud.

Improves your writing

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We all know writing is a good practice. If you start your blog today and compare your articles on a hundredth day, you will see that you are getting better at this. I have really felt the change in myself. When I started this blog, I struggled to fit even 100 words in my first article and see me today, writing 1000 words is a cakewalk now. Words will effortlessly come out and you can write as long as you want.

Increases your intelligence


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How is that even possible? Haha! Well, this is no magic rather logic. Bloggers update their blogs frequently, they create new content almost every day for their readers. Where it comes from? It comes only after extensive research. What I am trying to say is bloggers read a lot of stuff in order to generate their own content. They come across new and interesting information on the internet, they follow other blogs and this eventually increases their knowledge base.

Gives you exposure

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When you start a blog, you definitely think about taking it to the next level. You work hard to increase your reader-base, increase your blog ranking, increase your online presence. In the process, you meet with new people (bloggers and non-bloggers). You create a group or community of people around your blog. If I talk about myself, today I have 4-5 bloggers just like me in my circle, I have talked to some founders and entrepreneurs as well.



Helps you flaunt

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What could be better than having your own domain, isn't it cool? You will be the lucky one to say "I am a blogger, visit my website". In the starting days, you can flaunt around with it among your friends and cousins. Only with time, you will realise its seriousness. Personally, I feel good in fact great for having started this blog. 


Gives you a side-hustle

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Blogs can be a very good sideline for earning money. Some people are full-time into it because they generate a good income from it and this income can be as high as six figures in dollars. I am telling you this because believe it or not money drives you better than anything. But it entirely depends on how hard you are willing to work. Blogging is nothing but a calculated and careful investment. If you can't put all your time and efforts into it, just do it as a side business or hobby.

It is probably the time to take your talent online, go pro with a blog. In the next few days, I will write about "How to setup your first blog for free". So keep checking this space. Till then you can read about Google Adsense approval for your blog to make money online.

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Wednesday, 30 August 2017

How to crack an Interview?

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Placement drives are round the corner and your anxiety is breaking records. You are surrounded by clouds of uncertainty and it is difficult to see your way through it.
You desperately need to crack this interview but for that matter, you will have to make the job need you. Sounds impossible? Don't worry! I have been through the same and today I am going to help you deal with that.
Let us suppose you are a B.Tech final year student and software is your trait. You can always relate to what I am trying to say even if you belong to a different domain.
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1.How to prepare?

I will always suggest group study. It gives you better exposure, expands your knowledge base and increases your chance to crack an interview. Moreover, if you have a group of friends you can always arrange mock-interviews amongst each other. Ask your friends to be a panel of interviewers and be the interviewee. This will help you on the day of the interview because you will know how to deal with unexpected questions and you won't give a dumbfounded look.
I with my fellow friends did this and it really helped us. Remember, today soft skills are as important as technical know-how.

2.What to prepare?

People will always tell you different things that will only add up to your confusions. Don't listen to them at all. Don't run after all the subjects and all the programming languages. It is impossible to cover everything in such a short time. Otherwise, you will be the jack of all trades and the master of none. Take one subject (which you have interest in or you find it easy), two programming languages(it's better to opt for one object-oriented and one structured) which you are good at. And that's it.
I prepared Data Structure, Java and C.

3.How to build a resume?

There are many games in the market where you get to build your avatar. You drag and drop its hair, costume from the catalogue and try to make it look like you. Similarly, your resume should be a reflection of you. Never copy-paste a resume because only you can define yourself in appropriate words. Nobody else can. Now, it's up to you how wisely you choose your words. Don't try to fit big and difficult words into your resume, do it wherever needed but don't overdo it. Don't write anything on the resume that is not true because the interviewer is much smarter than you. He can always figure it out.
Tip: Try to memorise your resume because the interviewer might ask you to walk him through your resume. So you will have to dictate everything without a resume in your hand.

4.Know your company?

Before the one-on-one interview, it's better to collect some basic details about the company. Know about the CEO, what the company deals with? What are the latest research and findings by the company? Where are the prime locations? There can be questions related to the company in the written test too. So it's better that you listen carefully to the pre-placement talk.
I impressed my interviewer with the latest research talk of the company that I came across in a news app.

5.How to qualify for the written test?

Most of the written tests are conducted online. You have to answer too many questions in a limited time. The paper may comprise of Technical, Aptitude and English sections. Fortunately, you don't live in a stone age. Use the internet and download mock papers of the companies that you wish to apply. Know the pattern of the written paper before hand. It gives you an idea on how to manage your time. This is the big secret, believe me. Most of the time the questions are easy but beating the time limit makes everything hard.
Tip1: I myself bought a mock package from Placement Season, 3 papers for hundred bucks and it helped me to crack the written paper. The actual written paper had the exact same pattern.
Tip2: Although this is not the right thing to do, a friend of mine installed an instant dictionary extension in his web browser, just before the written test. It helped him with English word meanings, synonyms, antonyms and more. 

6.What other than subject knowledge?

Now that you are prepared for the technical round, let's focus on the HR Round. See, HR round has no fixed rules. You have to be ready for everything, and anything. You could be asked personal questions like 'Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?'(I am not kidding, my friend had to face this question in her first interview). Then there could be questions related to current affairs like 'Which Godman was recently sentenced to jail?'. So start watching the news, try to be as updated as you can. 
Tip: Download 'inshorts' news app if you haven't already, it is user-friendly, gives you short and crisp news in 60 words and lets you choose the topics that you would like to read. 


7.How important is your attire?

Since you are going to be a part of the corporate world, attire is important. There is nothing bad in investing on your attire because it shows that you are serious about the interview.  A light, sober shirt paired with a dark trouser is the best and safest combination although there is no problem in deviating from the crowd but again don't wear something too bright or tacky. A little perfume will be good so that you don't stink. Girls can apply light makeup. If you have an oily face, keep fresh wipes with you and don't forget to clean your face before entering the cabin.
Tip: If white-black is too mainstream, girls can go for a pink shirt and grey trouser. 

8.What about the day before the interview?

Don't study on the last day. It's better if you don't. You can watch some movie or your favourite tv-series to beat the nervousness. Spend time with your friends. Make this day the rest day. Don't eat something oily for dinner because you don't want to wake up the next morning with an upset stomach. An upset stomach means an upset day. Hydrate yourself, drink lots of water. Arrange your documents that you will need to take along the next day. Go early to bed so that you get enough sleep. 
Tip: Set more than one alarm for the next morning.

9.The Day!

I hope the alarm wakes you up on time. Take a bath. Dress well. Be cool, be confident and don't forget to be yourself. Look in the mirror, smile and say 'I can do this'. A positive outlook is all that you need. Talk to your parents before leaving for the interview. Just Keep in mind-You have done your part and whatever happens will be for your best. 
Tip: Try to reach the venue atleast 15 minutes before the reporting time.

10.What if you don't know the answer?

It is not a big deal. You are too young to know all the answers. Don't try to hook him(the interviewer) in some silly out-of-the context answers that you cook at the moment.  If you don't know it, just smile and acknowledge. Now, this is the chance to impress him. You can request him to ask you questions on the subject that you are confident about. But be sure that whatever he asks you this time, you have an answer for that. 
Tip: The best thing to say is 'Sorry Sir, I don't know the answer but you can definitely ask me about XYZ'. 

11.What if you don't make it?

So what! This is not the end of the world. With twenty something age, you have an entire life before you. If you don't crack this interview it means it was not meant for you. Better things are waiting. Never lose hope. Learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them. Maintain your calm, work harder for the next time.
My brother's friend was struggling with a job, after getting rejected from most of the companies, he finally landed in Microsoft. Cool, right?

I hope this article helps you. If you have doubt on my credibility, I have bagged three placements. So, you can trust me.
 If you need any help with your resume or you have any placement related queries, please scroll down and find the contact form below. I will be more than happy to help you. You can also comment in the comment section.
I wish you best of the fate for your placements. Just know- You can! 😊

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Tuesday, 29 August 2017

Table Manners Everyone Should Know

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We all know that food is for delight, and you don't want some rocket science when it comes to eating your food.

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What you do in the privacy of your home is not anyone's business or concern. But when you have to attend a corporate party, following some table etiquettes will help you stand out.
Moreover, the below-listed table manners are pretty basic and not that difficult to practice.

How to use your napkin?

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These napkins are there just for you. They will support you throughout the meal. They really want to be used. Place the napkin on your lap before starting your meal. If something inedible goes into your mouth like fish-bones or anything, you can take it out into the napkin and roll it. Moreover, if you don't want to sit with pasta sauce on your face which you had in the beginning of the meal, just use the napkin.

When to start?
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Well, this is an important point. If you are invited to a party as a guest then show some decency and let the host do the honours. Don't just start gorging as soon as the food is served. If it is a get-together sort of thing then you should start eating only after everyone is served. Also try to match your eating pace with others, because you don' want to end up in a situation when people are waiting for you to finish your food.



How to sit?

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When you are out with your friends, you really don't need to follow this suit. Of course, nobody will care how you sit. But when you are with your seniors or a more formal sort of thing then you should avoid slouching. Don't place your elbows on the table while using the cutlery. Howsoever you can always lean forward on your elbows during a conversation. It shows that you are interested and listening.

How to make a conversation?

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It's good if you take the initiative and break the ice because nobody wants to sit mum while they are out to enjoy. You can talk about something that can make people laugh at the table. But make sure you don't say words like yuck, awful, gross or anything that is forbidden during a meal because it is disgraceful. Also if somebody asks you something and you have food in your mouth, it's better to give them a smile while you finish the mouthful load. Believe me, nobody wants to see you chew your food.

Which one is my bread plate?

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When you sit around a round table, it gets too confusing to figure out which bread plate is yours- the one to your left or the one to your right?
Quickly use your both hands and touch your index finger with your thumb. You will get a 'small b' on your left which says bread and a 'small d' on your right which says drink. So, the bread plate is always to your left and the drinks are always to your right.

How to arrange utensils?

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Although in premium restaurants you will have them arranged for you already. But in case you have to do it on your own, you better know how to do it. I will suggest you remember the word 'FO(r)KS' as an acronym where F is for forks, O is your plate, K is for knives and S is for spoons.
See, it isn't that hard to keep in mind.



How to pass food?

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Always follow the counter clockwise fashion when it comes to passing the food. But if the lady to your left asks you to pass the gravy boat, don't stick to the rule idiotically. Just be humble and oblige! 
If you want something from across the table, don't just stretch your hand to the other side, simply request the person to pass it to you.

How to check your phone?

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It is rude to check your phone while eating because you are supposed to be on a social meeting and using your phone is quite impolite. Although it is evitable and you will need to check your phone or make a call occasionally. So the best thing to do is say the magic words 'please excuse me!', go to the restroom and do what you got to do.

How to call the waiter?

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The most unlikely thing you would want to do in a restaurant is shout. So never ever shout out to the waiter unless you want every pair of eyes on you. Instead try to maintain an eye contact with the waiter and in case you can't do this, just raise the index finger of your right hand to draw him to you.
Remember: Only morons clap when the server or the waiter drops something accidentally on the floor. Haha!

What to do when you are done eating?

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If you are done, simply rest the fork and the knife(or whatever implements you have) on the centre of the plate parallelly in NW direction or 4:20 fashion(in case you are not good with directions). Fold the napkin loosely and place it to the left of your plate before rising to leave. Don't forget to thank the host for the wonderful evening and the food.


These are the basic table manners that you should know and try to practice in daily life because our manners are one of the many things that partly distinguish us from animals.
Hope these tips will help you in the long run. Don't just eat, eat with style. Make it a gentleman's pursuit.

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Wednesday, 26 July 2017

The Heart Breaking Story Of Keanu Reeves

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This digital superhero won everyone's heart. Yes, I am talking about the groundbreaking movie of 1999, The Matrix. But that's not all, Keanu has given us many amazing movies right from Point Break, Constantine, A Scanner Darkly, The Devil's Advocate, Speed to his latest movie John Wick.

He can be seen trying his luck in every genre, sometimes he is an exorcist born with the powers to see angels and demons, and sometimes he is a retired hitman seeking vengeance for the theft of his vintage car and killing of his puppy.
Whilst the diversity of his on-screen roles, very few people know the struggles of his off-screen life.

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He was very young when his father left. Reeves was born in Lebanon, to a British mother and a Chinese-Hawaiian father. Although nobody knows his exact age when his father abandoned his family. But after the separation, his family moved from one city to another. As a result he had to attend four different high-schools. That's really tough for a youngster, changing too many schools can change you, obviously not in a good way. Isn't it?

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The story has more to it. Both Keanu and his sister Kim were dyslexic thus making education a constant struggle.
Kim Reeves, few years younger than Keanu was diagnosed with Leukemia around 1991. And brother Keanu supported her throughout her illness.
It is claimed that Keanu donated 70% of his earnings from the movie Matrix to numerous Cancer Charities and Research Institutes. In an article published in 2009, Keanu said that he had started a private charitable foundation. Keanu certainly has a selfless, noble heart.

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In 1993, Keanu's best friend River Phoenix passed away due to a drug overdose. Phoenix was just 23. It is definitely a heart wrenching feeling, losing a best friend is like losing a part of your own self. They could be seen together in the movie "My own Private Idaho."

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In 1998 he met Jennifer Syme. In no time, the two fell in love and by 1999 she was pregnant with his daughter. After a long time, Keanu had a ray of happiness in his life. But destiny had something else planned for Keanu. In Syme's eight month of pregnancy, their child was stillborn. The death of their daughter shook them and the family was torn apart. They got separated soon after it but decided to stay close. Just 18 months later Syme died in a car accident.
Reeves reportedly told parade magazine in 2006:

Grief changes shape but it never ends. 
After everything that happened with him, it was the least he could say.
Yes, Keanu may be surrounded by death, but even in his darkest of times he has learned to find happiness and move on. Because happiness for him is very basic. In an interview in 1995 he was asked to define happiness and his definition was pretty simple:

Lying in bed with my lover, riding my bike, sports, happy times with my friends, conversation, learning, the earth, dirt, a beautiful repast with friends, family with wine and glorious food and happy tidings and energy and zest and lust for life. I like being in the desert, in nature, being in extraordinary spaces in nature, high on a tree, hanging out with my family or sisters.

When it comes to family and friends, everyone is generous but Keanu is a little too different. He has helped many people outside his circle. People have shared their personal accounts of Keanu's kindness on the internet. A few years ago, Redditor Kahi made the following comment in a thread about the #SadKeanu meme:

A family friend builds movie sets, doesn't design, is one of the poor duded that just builds. Anyways he worked on the set for the Matrix and Keanu heard about family trouble that he was having and gave him a $20,000 Christmas bonus to help him out. He was also one of the many people on the set that genuinely wanted to know people's names, would say hello and mean it, and would talk to people as if they were his peers and not below him just because they were practically making nothing to build a set, I've never heard anyone say Keanu is a douche, seems like the nicest person in Hollywood from a second hand experience.
He also voluntarily took pay cuts for movies like The Replacements and The Devil's Advocates so that actors like Gene Hackman and Al Pacino would agree to do the movie, without overdoing the budget.
I mean literally who does that! Keanu is definitely the person to look up to.


We can learn many things from him like finding happiness in the simplest of things and most importantly, death is not the opposite of life but a part of it. Keanu Reeves is a true inspiration. Instead of his net worth of $350 million, it is his words that caught my attention:

It's easy to stay grounded. The ground is very close and we walk on it every day.















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Friday, 6 January 2017

The story behind "Cheers"

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The ubiquitous custom of raising a toast or saying "cheers" seems to be as old as the history itself. Few days back i was having a heartfelt conversation with one of my good friend, and it popped in my head to write about the story behind "Cheers". The best thing is that it is way more interesting than it may sound.

Many old tales suggest that the clinking of glasses or saying cheers after pouring your drink is a customary tradition to prevent oneself from a conspired death. If someone adds poison in the drink, so on raising a toast, the drink may spill out from one glass to another and hence the person who conspired against you may himself consume the poison and eventually die. So conspirators may restrain themselves from doing this sin.
Sounds legit, isn't it?
But sadly there are no evidences to support this story, so in the absence of light, we leave this story as a myth.

So i kept my research on, and found that the real origin of this tradition of "cheers" is the Ancient Greek. They have a ritual of offering libation to the Greek Gods. From this point of time, we drink to each other's health. To back this conjecture, you can read the book "The Odyssey" where Ulysses drinks to the health of Achilles. Even once the Roman Senate passed a decree stating that every citizen must drink to Emperor Augustus at every meal.


But there is more to it. You would be surprised to know what's more intriguing: the term "toast" itself. The origin of this term dates back to the early sixteenth century. This was the time when toasts(bread) were literally soaked in the drinks before consumption. It was believed that drinks were adulterated and dipping a piece of toast into it will soak up all the acidity and improve the flavour of the drink. While this will have a second benefit too, it will make the bread palatable. The very first account of this story can be found in the Shakespeare's "The Merry Wives of Windsor" where the character of Falstaff demands- "Go fetch me a quart of sack; put a toast in't."

What i am going to tell you next may sound silly. In the 17th and 18th century "toasting" became an etiquette and "toastmasters" came into existence. They are kind of a third party referee who ensure that it didn't become too excessive and everyone got their fair share of toasting. I may sound funny, but it was a much desperately needed role then.

And slowly we landed on many drinking games and practices. The most bizarre ones being the one where a man would stab his arm, add his blood in the drink, and gulp it down to prove his love and devotion to his lady. While there is another story which involves toasting to a lady's beauty by drinking from her shoe. Seriously that's gross.

None of these practices are entertained today, what a relief, isn't it?
Today toasting or saying "cheers" has become more of a civilised, restrained and intellectual pursuit.

So next time when you drink among your friends or family, don't forget to "cheers" to their well being and share this story over a glass of wine.

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Sunday, 25 December 2016

Are you a Psychopath?

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A ‘Psychopath’ is a person with an antisocial personality, which includes lack of empathy and feeling for others, lack of guilt, selfishness, superficial charm, ability to manipulate others etc.

In the early 1800s, doctors who worked with mental patients began to notice that some of their patients who appeared outwardly normal had what they termed a ‘moral depravity’ or ‘moral insanity’, in that they seemed to possess no sense of ethics or of the rights of other people.

Psychopaths are literally everywhere- In your neighbourhood, working with you at your workplace, sitting next to you on a subway. Psychopathy is perhaps most dramatised and talked about mental condition in popular culture.

In common belief, the word Psychopath is synonymous with violent, murderous maniac or serial killer, like Hannibal Lecter from The Silence of the Lambs or Dexter Morgan from Dexter. But, contrary to that, Psychopaths can be charming and intelligent, like Patrick Bateman from American Psycho. In fact, many of them hold prominent positions in various business organizations, because of their impulsive attitude.
According to a survey, people employed in certain jobs like CEOs, Lawyers, Surgeons, Police officers etc. have a high tendency of showing psychopathic traits.

The most commonly used device to identify a psychopath is Psychopathy Checklist- Revised (PCL-R), developed by Dr. Robert D. Hare. It is a twenty item checklist, which identifies the degree of psychopathy in an individual.

For each of the twenty characteristics, give a score of 0 if it does not apply, 1 if applied partially and 2 for perfect match.
If your overall scores sums up to be above 30, there are chances that you are a psychopath!

Here are the twenty questions. Take the quiz.

1.    Do you have excessive glibness or superficial charm?
A psychopath is never shy or introvert. In fact, he is very engaging, friendly, verbally pleasing and manipulative, irresistible (especially to opposite sex) and well mannered.

2.    Do you have a grandiose sense of self-worth?
Psychopaths exhibit superiority complex. They have an exaggerated view of their abilities.

3.    Do you have a proneness to boredom?
Psychopaths often get bored easily, and fail to complete a given task due to lack of self-discipline. Also, they show a constant urge to attempt something thrilling and risky.

4.    Are you a pathological liar?
Psychopaths can be shrewd, cunning, clever, as well as manipulative, deceitful and dishonest in extreme cases.

5.    Are you conning or manipulative?
Psychopaths use deception and deceit to con, cheat and defraud others for personal gain. It is of a higher degree in terms of ruthlessness present, as compared to point no. 4.

6.    Do you display a lack of remorse or guilt?
Psychopaths usually don’t feel sorry for doing something wrong. It is demonstrated by disdain for one’s victims.

7.    Do you have ‘shallow effect’?
Psychopaths have a limited range of feelings, and generally struggle in showing appropriate emotional reaction according to the situation.

8.    Do you lack empathy?
Psychopaths are usually unconcerned and insensitive about someone else’s sufferings.

9.    Do you have a ‘parasitic lifestyle’?
Psychopaths depend upon others due to lack of motivation and self -discipline. They find it easy to lend other peoples’ stuffs.

10. Poor Behavioural control
Psychopaths are generally short tempered individuals, and express their irritation, impatience, anger on others.

11. Promiscuous  behaviour
Maintaining numerous affairs at a same time is a psychopathic trait. Psychopaths take great pride in discussing their sexual conquests.

12. Early behaviour problems
Psychopaths start off very early in their lives. It includes exhibiting a variety of behaviour like lying, bullying, theft, cheating etc. prior to age 13.

13. Lack of long term, realistic goals
Psychopaths prefer crazy schemes over realistic goals. They live a nomadic lifestyle.

14. Are you overly impulsive?
Psychopaths have a very erratic and reckless behaviour. They often change their decisions frequently, without paying much heed to the consequences.

15. Are you irresponsible?
Psychopaths repeatedly fail to fulfill commitments, like paying bills, loans, reaching late to work regularly, doing sloppy work etc.

16.  Do you fail to accept responsibilities of your own actions?
Psychopaths often blame others for their faults.

17.  Have you had many short term marital relationships?
Psychopaths fail to commit to long term relationships, and often prefer short terms relationships with different partners, like one night stands.

18.  Do you have a history of juvenile delinquency?
Some psychopaths show behaviour problems between the ages 13 to 18, including participation in crime or expression of aggression, antagonism, callousness etc.

19.  Have you experienced ‘revocation of conditional release’?
Conditional release means being let out from prison due to technical violation, carelessness, failing to appear etc.

20.  Do you display ‘criminal versatility’?
Psychopaths differ from normal criminals because they don't care which type of laws they break- they'll break any of them. Also, they take great pride in getting away with crimes.

So, what’s your score?

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